Most girls don’t understand when their parents tell them that they “can’t go out of the house in that thing!” They just think that their parents are, “Being to hard.” Or, “They just don’t want me to have attention.” But what attention are you getting when you walking around in almost nothing. Of course you are going to have guys look at you. Of course you are going to get attention. But what kind of attention is it? Is it the Godly attention that will glorify Christ?
They also don’t realize that guys think different than we do. Guys are more visual. And when girls go around in tight jeans and low shirts, they will look at you and treat you differently.
I’m not saying you have to wear a towel on your head, only wear skirts that go down to you ankle and lock yourself in a closet. You can be “hip”, and in “the fad” with being modest at the same time. You just should set certain standards for yourself.
Also every person is different. Each person has different standers for themselves. Some people don’t feel comfortable wearing skirts that come to their knees. While others do. Some people don’t think its right to wear pant. While others have no problem with it. Pick your own style and be unique. Don’t be afraid to stand out and do what you think is cool. Just make sure that you are always keeping the guys that watch you and God in mind.
~Savvy
“…[T]hey will LOOK at you and TREAT you DIFFERENTLY.”